I took the long way here — and it made me exactly who I need to be.
Before pursuing my degree in child development, I was just focused on being a ballet dancer. That was my passion and drive. Later on, it was with finding out who I was beyond the barre that led me to discover a curiosity for children, particularly what makes children who they are.
Every detour, every hard pivot, every moment of starting over — all of it led here. And looking back, it couldn't have happened any other way.
My story started in China. I was adopted young, and long before I understood what that meant, it was already shaping me. It taught me about belonging, about identity, and about what it feels like to navigate something big before you have the words for it. That's exactly why I want to work with children — because I know what it's like to need someone who just gets it.
I started ballet at age four. Eight years at a conservatory, five at a Russian academy, then pre-professional training in Dallas and New York City at the Joffrey Ballet School. Sixteen years of showing up, failing, and getting back up — until something difficult becomes something beautiful.
Leaving ballet — the thing I'd given everything to — was one of the hardest decisions of my life. But it was the most honest. I chose what was actually true for me: a lifelong pull toward children and a burning curiosity about how they grow. Walking away was the bravest thing I ever did.
Before pursuing a child development degree, there was a simpler drive: I just wanted to help people. I've always stuck up for the underdog, always felt called toward something bigger than myself. But it wasn't until I began doing the real work of healing my inner self that a love for children grew — quietly, undeniably — into a calling. I didn't go looking for this path. I had to become myself first, and then I found it.
I'm pursuing a Bachelor of Science in Child Development with a Mental Health emphasis from Texas Woman's University — working toward becoming a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with a specialization in children, adolescents, trauma, and play therapy. One day I plan to own my own private practice. Every course, every experience, and every moment of growth is shaping the therapist I'm becoming.
What fascinates me most is the science — how a child's brain actually builds itself, how early experiences get wired in, how stress and joy and connection all leave real biological fingerprints. It's not abstract to me. It feels urgent. The more I learn, the more I want to know.
I'm particularly drawn to children in vulnerable moments — in hospitals, in transitions, in fear. Not because it's easy, but because that's exactly where the right adult in the room can change everything. I want to be that person.
Every child deserves someone who understands what's happening inside them — and chooses to meet them there.
My background is unconventional. That's precisely what makes it valuable. Everything I carry into this field was earned — not just studied.
I know what it means to commit to something fully — to show up every single day even when it's hard, to push through difficulty without giving up. I bring that same dedication to everything I do.
I've faced adversity, rebuilt myself, and come out stronger each time. I don't just understand resilience theoretically — I know it personally, and that makes me someone who can truly sit with a child in their hardest moments.
I listen with a different kind of attention. I notice what people aren't saying as much as what they are. I don't just hear children — I hear what they haven't yet found the words for.
I ask questions because I genuinely can't stop wondering. About brain development, about behavior, about what children need to thrive. That curiosity drives everything I do — and it will never be a performance.
I don't have every answer yet — but I know exactly where I'm headed. I'm working toward becoming a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialization in children, adolescents, trauma, and play therapy. One day I'll own my own private practice — a space where children and families feel truly safe, seen and understood.
The future is wide open — and wherever it leads, children will be at the center of it. I'm ready.
I'm always open to connecting with mentors, clinicians, researchers, and anyone who cares deeply about the lives of children. Reach out — I'd genuinely love to hear from you.